What to Wear When Meeting His Parents?

Meeting your boyfriend's parents must make you nervous, but the right outfit can help you make a good impression and feel more confident. It's important to choose decent clothes but still be yourself. Don't wear clothes that are too revealing and avoid anything too casual (such as sportswear). Take into account where you will meet the guy's parents and what time of day it is. All of this will help you choose the right outfit.

How to choose modest clothes

1. Do not choose things that are too revealing. Refuse to wear clothes with deep necklines, short tops that reveal the stomach, and things with an open back. Think about the length of the skirt : it is better to choose a skirt just above the knee or longer.

· It is better to refuse shorts unless they do not fall below mid-thigh.

· Make sure that from under the clothes do not see the straps of the bra.

· Do not wear dresses and skirts with a high slit.

2. Consider covering up tattoos and piercings. Unless you know for sure that the guy's family won't mind tattoos and piercings, it's best to cover them up. Wear closed clothing to hide tattoos, and make jewelry out of visible piercings at least for the duration of the meeting.

· It will be helpful to get to know the guy's parents better before showing them your tattoos and piercings - this will help avoid jumping to conclusions on their part.

·If you can't hide your tattoos and piercings, choose modest clothing (e.g., low-cut tops, long sleeves, pants) to show the boyfriend's parents that you treat them with respect.

3. Wear things that fit you well. Avoid baggy and tight-fitting clothes. Clothes should be tailored to your body, but not too tight. Do away with tight tops, dresses, and skinny jeans. At the same time, you should not wear pants that hang below the waist, as well as sweaters or shirts that are too big for your figure.

· Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in and can move freely.

4. Choose clean clothes without holes and iron them. To make a good impression, you should wear clean clothes with a fresh smell. Avoid jeans with holes and cuts. Smooth things out with an iron or a special spray.

· Make sure there are no holes on your shirt, sweater, or jacket (they may have appeared unnoticed).

5.Opt for more austere and dressy items. Things you wear around the house or for sports are unlikely to help you make a good impression. Instead of a T-shirt and sportswear, wear a blouse, a button-down shirt, neat pants or a dress.

· Do not wear T-shirts with images. It is better to choose a simple solid-colored T-shirt or a T-shirt with an unobtrusive print.

· Only wear leggings under a dress or skirt, not in place of pants.

6. If in doubt, choose a more conservative option. If you have several clothing options but do not know what to choose, give preference to a more modest one. This will make you feel confident and presentable.

· If you are choosing between a blouse with a slightly open back and a knitted sweater, it is better to wear the sweater in combination with pants.

7. If you want to create a casual look, wear a sweater over a solid-colored shirt. Choose a comfortable sweater that is not bright but interesting in color. This will emphasize your personality while looking modest. The sweater can be monochrome or with a pattern. Combine it with neat jeans or simple slacks.

· If you prefer a sweater with a pattern, it is better to opt for a pattern in muted colors. Refuse bright, neon colors and images.

· If you do not plan to take off the sweater, wear a simple white T-shirt or longline with buttons under it.

How to put together a feminine look

1. Match your clothes to the upcoming event and location. A picnic outdoors and dinner at an expensive restaurant require different clothes. Ask your boyfriend what you'll be doing, and find out the time of day and location so you know how to dress.

· For example, if you go to watch a soccer game together, you can wear jeans and a sweater. For dinner, ballet flats and a dress would be more appropriate.

2. If the meeting will be held in nature, wear a blouse, sweater, and neat jeans. If you plan to spend time outdoors, you should dress warm and comfortable, so jeans and a sweater will do. In warm weather, you can replace the sweater with a blouse. Pick tight-fitting jeans without holes or cuts and add a modest sweater or blouse in blue, green, or orange to them. Choose comfortable ballet flats or low-heeled shoes (depending on the event).

· For example, you can wear blue jeans, a pastel green shade sweater, and black shoes.

· In summer, you can wear cropped jeans with a white, yellow or blue short-sleeved blouse.

· Pick up a simple chain or bracelet to add personality to the look.

3. Combine a simple dress with a jacket or sweater. This will give you a versatile outfit. If the meeting with your parents will be informal, wear a cotton dress with a denim jacket. If you're going for something more formal, wear a flared dress with a simple sweater. The dress is perfect for meeting your parents, and a sweater or jacket over the dress will make the look even more modest.

· Wear an A-silhouette dress with a beige trenchcoat and low-heeled shoes, or choose a striped dress paired with a cream sweater.

· Match your shoes and accessories to make them look dressy or simple. To look more dressy, wear a large piece of jewelry and low-heeled shoes. If you don't want to overload your look, choose simple earrings and comfortable ballet flats.

4. If you want to look elegant, complement your blouse with a skirt of matching colors. Choose a neutral-colored blouse (cream, light gray) and a bright skirt, or wear a blue or light burgundy blouse with a neutral-colored skirt. Complete the look with a jacket or jacket and a comfortable pair of shoes without heels.

· For example, tuck a light blue blouse into a high-waisted A-silhouette skirt that is just above the knee.

· Instead of ballet flats, you can wear low-heeled boots.

5. If you are going to have dinner in a nice restaurant, wear a jumpsuit with a blazer. If you want to look luxurious and stylish, choose a jumpsuit in blue, black, or pastel colors. A darker-colored jumpsuit should be paired with a light-colored jacket to create contrast. A black or navy blue blazer will look good with a light green, gray, or burgundy jumpsuit.

· You can pair a cream-colored jumpsuit with a blue blazer or a light pink jumpsuit with a gray or black jacket.

· Complete the look with low-heeled shoes or ballet flats.

How to choose a hairstyle

Gently style your hair to look confident. Once you've showered and washed your hair, start drying and styling. It may be enough to just brush your hair to keep it smooth and shiny, but you can also curl it or gel it.

· Hair can also be straightened to lay flat or braided. It can also be styled into a high hairstyle.

· If you want, choose a hoop that matches your outfit to keep your hair out of your eyes.

Do not wear flashy jewelry, so that they do not distract attention from you. A simple chain or earrings will complete your outfit but do not wear large jewelry or a lot of jewelry at once to meet the parents of the guy. To demonstrate your sense of style and individuality, 1-2 small pieces of jewelry will be enough. For example, you can wear a simple gold watch and pearl earrings. Wear a pendant on a long chain if you are wearing a solid color shirt or sweater.

Do not overdo the perfume. If you use perfume, it will be enough to press the sprayer 1-2 times, otherwise, there is a risk of overdoing it. Apply some toilet water on your clothes and on your wrist. Since you don't know if your boyfriend's parents are allergic to perfume, it's better to avoid scents or use a small amount of eau de toilette.

Don't wear bright makeup to meet your boyfriend's parents, as it can draw attention away from you. Go for neutral makeup to look natural. Try to look natural: one coat of mascara and some lip gloss is enough. Do away with thick eyeliner and thick shadows. Choose a lip gloss or lipstick in natural or muted shades (e.g. pale pink, berry).

Tips

· Take a shower before your meeting. Wash and style your hair.

· If you can't decide on an outfit, try on a few outfits and ask your parents or other family members for their opinions.

· Don't force yourself to wear things that are out of your comfort zone. It is important to feel comfortable and confident.

· Do not wear translucent things.